The Problem of Sinful Thoughts and How to Prevent Them
Understanding Aggada
Yeshivat Har Etzion
Shiur #20:
The Problem of Sinful Thoughts and How to Prevent Them
By Rav Yitzchak Blau
Thoughts of sin
(hirhurei aveira) are worse than sin, and the illustration of this is the
smell of meat.
(Yoma
29a)
Some commentaries
question this statement in light of other Talmudic sources (e.g., Kiddushin 39b)
indicating that sinful thoughts are not punishable. Others discuss in what sense sinful
thoughts might prove more harmful than sinful behavior. The Rambam (Moreh Nevukhim 3:8)
maintains that sinful thoughts are more problematic because they relate to the
essence of what it means to be a human being. Animals and humans share the realm of
action, but only human beings utilize their minds to think, analyze and
ponder. In that sense, sinful
thoughts corrupt the most significant part of a person. Interestingly, Rambam argues that, in
this context, sinful speech should be classified together with sinful thoughts,
as the power of speech also remains the exclusive character of a human
being.
A different approach
identifies sinful thoughts with heretical thoughts. Rabbi Yosef Albo (Sefer
Ha-ikkarim 4:29) points out that sins often stem from the denial of one of
the three fundamental principles: God's existence, divine providence or divine
revelation. Thus, the term
"hirhurei aveira" actually refers to heresy. If so, we can understand the gemara's
regarding thoughts that reject our fundamentals of faith as worse than
individual acts of sin.
Rabbi Mei'ir Simcha
Ha-kohen from Dvinsk (Meshekh Chokhma, Bereishit 18:28) bases an
alternative explanation on a famous distinction made by Rabbi Eliyahu of Vilna,
the Gra. The Gra argues that the
terms
"din and "cheshbon" (see Avot 3:1) refer to two
different modes of divine judgment for wrongdoing: the former relates to the
actual transgressions, while the latter refers to the wasted opportunity to do
mitzvot. From the
perspective of "din," sinful acts may be worse than sinful thoughts;
however, from the perspective of "cheshbon," sinful thoughts are worse as
each moment of constructive thinking would have been considered a mitzva. Therefore, the realm of thought
accommodates a much greater sense of missed opportunity.
Rabbeinu Nissim (Derashot Ha-Ran, Derasha 5) says that this quote
of Chazal indicates the essential role of inwardness in religious
life. He contends that positive
mitzvot share the significance of the internal component emphasized in
Yoma with regard to transgressions.
While Halakha clearly cares greatly about external action, the
internal state is indispensable.
Rabbeinu Nissim argues for the centrality of the inner state when it
comes to mitzvot relating to beliefs, mitzvot of an interpersonal
nature and mitzvot that demand a certain awareness of God acting in
history. With regard to all three
categories, physical performance absent the internal awareness would be missing
the essence of the mitzvot in question. In the same way, sinful thoughts can
relate to the essential internal component of certain types of evil.
All of the above
approaches assume that when the gemara says that sinful thoughts are worse, it
means "worse" in the sense of greater culpability and a more weighty
transgression. Alternatively,
"worse" may refer to the measure of frustration and difficulty involved. Tosafot Yeshanim explain our text in
this way and they illustrate their point utilizing the gemara's example. The smell of a juicy piece of meat is
much harder on the one who has not partaken from it than on the one who
has. The thoughts of sin are far
more difficult to deal with precisely because they remain unfulfilled. The sin remains an ever-beckoning goal
seemingly full of delight and splendor.
Presumably, Tosafot
Yeshanim are not suggesting that we purposely sin so as to lessen the level of
frustration. I see three possible
practical implications to their interpretation. Firstly, we should exhibit understanding
and sympathy to those frustrated by temptations. Secondly, we should avoid placing
ourselves in situations that encourage sinful thoughts. Finally, we should realize that the
forbidden fruit often loses its luster once a person has taken a bite; perhaps
this thought will help cool our ardor for the cheeseburger that seems so
inviting.
As noted, the gemara's
evaluation refers either to the degree of blame or to the level of
frustration. Either way, we cannot
escape the question of whether or not we can truly prevent sinful thoughts from
occurring. After all, these
thoughts seem to come to us from a part of the personality that precedes
reflection. Is there a practical
method to avoid the pitfall of sinful thoughts?
The Anaf Yosef, cited in
Ein Yaakov, offers two suggestions.
He first mentions the possibility that we cannot prevent sinful
thoughts. Indeed, some temptations
afflict the most righteous of souls.
However, we can control what happens after these sinful thoughts
arrive. Do we dwell on the sinful
possibilities with great enthusiasm, or do we quickly distract ourselves by
thinking about other things? When
thoughts of revenge emerge, do we relish the fantasy of publicly embarrassing
our rivals, or do we assure that those vengeful thoughts remain fleeting by
diverting our attention elsewhere?
According to this approach, the Anaf Yosef suggests that the hirhurei
aveira evaluated negatively by the gemara denote specifically prolonged
dwelling on the possibilities of sin and not fleeting thoughts of
wrongdoing.
In his second
interpretation, the Anaf Yosef argues that we can actually prevent sinful
thoughts, but not by attacking them directly. Rather, he recommends filling one's day
with Torah study and other positive endeavors so that dreams of iniquity have
little room to enter. It is well
known that bored adolescents hanging out on street corners are more prone to
destructive behavior; less well-known is that the same phenomenon occurs with
adults. Adults whose lives are
filled with religiously significant activity will simply have less time for
thoughts of sin; they will also hopefully find their lives meaningful enough to
lessen the need to look beyond the boundaries of religiously acceptable behavior
for excitement.
One final approach comes
from a famous passage in the Torah commentary of the Ibn Ezra (Peirush
Ha-arukh, Shemot 20:13). He
questions how the Torah could require people not to covet the house or animal of
their neighbors: after all, such
coveting seems natural and immediate.
(Parenthetically, some authorities do maintain that one does not violate
the prohibition of "Do not covet" unless one has done an action towards
acquiring the item.) The Ibn Ezra
answers with a parable: a poor villager does not desire to marry the princess,
as he knows very well that she is out of his league. In the same way, humans are not jealous
of the flying powers of birds, as aviation is simply not part of our universe of
possibilities. Apparently, our
orientation toward various possibilities does influence which desires we
have. Many of us are not tempted to
steal or cheat on an exam even when we know we could get away with it and we
would benefit from such cheating or stealing; due to our moral recoiling from
such behavior, the temptations seem much less compelling. The Ibn Ezra challenges us to
internalize the wrongness of problematic practices until they start to lose
their allure.
None of the above is
meant to suggest that dealing with temptations is easy. We can understand the difficulties of
the endeavor even as we recognize the importance of it and proceed with the
three strategies outlined above.
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